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“All You Need Is Love”
 ~The Beatles

 

The Beatles sing, “All You Need Is Love”.  Have you ever thought about what those lyrics mean?  What they mean is that you should not only receive all the love the world has to offer, but that you should also give love.

Some people do not understand the meaning or definition of love.  Love is admiration, caring and respect.  That means admiring without envy, showing concerns for other’s well-being and giving respect with no expectations in return.

To admire without envy is easily accomplished.  You look at the accomplishments of a successful person with an inquisitive eye as to how did they succeed.  What qualities, virtues and behaviors did they use to reach this position of admiration?  Inquire, for you will want to emulate them.  The one thing that you do not want, is to become jealous or envious of them.  You’re tasked to rise to a position of admiration of your own.

Caring, the genuine concern for another’s well-being, is foundational to love.  When you care, you’ll go the extra mile or take the extra step to make things right for them.  Because you care, you are there for them in their time of need.  Through this act of love, their eyes are opened to their vulnerabilities.  The seed of love is planted in their heart.

The element of respect is so important.  When you give love, if you respect that person, it’s much easier to open your heart to them which can expose your own vulnerabilities.  Respect grows into trust and you are able to love completely and unconditionally.

When you are able to love unconditionally, you free yourself from selfish desires and wants.  You now avoid the pain of unfulfilled expectations.  By loving unconditionally, you are actually Freeing Yourself.

Those who interact with you will be enhanced by your gift of love and you by their love.   This is what the world needs most, Love!!! 

To quote the Beatles, “All You Need Is Love!!!”

Love can be so dynamic and confusing, especially in the beginning of a relationship.  One of the most powerful tools available to you is Audio Hypnosis.  Dr. Steve G. Jones, hypnotist to the stars of Beverly Hills, has a collection of over 4,ooo hypnotic recordings. These recordings will help you with many of life’s issues including Relationships, Understanding and Self Confidence.  I own and use 10 of these recordings and can vouch for their value first hand.  Take this first step and take a look at what’s available. Click the link below!!!

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“When You Let Go of Who You Are, Then You Can Grow – Give It A Thought”

How to Grow

How to Grow

When you let go of who you are….  What?  How do you know who you are? 

First, the best way of knowing yourself is to routinely use self-introspection examinations.  During each session, record your answers to the “questions”.  Use this record to track your answers in-order to understand who you are now and where your future growth takes you. 

Second, ask trusted friends and family to give you an honest opinion of your abilities.  They know you best and their insight will be quite helpful.  You may be surprised at how willing they are to do this.  Keep in mind the saying, “Cherish the friend who tells you the harsh truth, although they would rather tell you a loving lie”.

In order to grow, you have to be willing to let go of who you are.  Get out of your comfort zone and become comfortable with the unknown.  Your self-destructive behaviors which are governed by limiting beliefs need to be identified and changed.  

Through the self-introspection process, you can identify limiting beliefs.  It will take time to change them.  It’s a slow and gradual practice, using the technique of “Positive Re-Interpretation of Negative Thoughts”.   This is the procedure of re-thinking and wording negative thoughts with positive words.   When you change your negative thinking to positive thinking, it will gradually change your belief system.

What do you need to grow?

First, in order to grow, you must be open minded.  Be willing to explore new horizons and not prejudge information through your personal belief system.  Your way may not always be the best way.

Second, study what you are passionate about.  When you follow your passion, you are willing to research and dig deeper for the facts and truths.

Third, develop and use a networking  system.  ASK!!!  Ask those you know and trust.  Some of the best sources for information include professional organizations such as Small Business Administration, Chamber of Commerce and Rotary Club.  Also, you can join a Mastermind Group or hire Coaches and Mentors.  Bottom line, “Don’t re-invent the wheel”, just learn how to make it work for you.

Fourth, make a plan, set goals and deadlines.  Just make sure they are obtainable and celebrate when you reach each one.  Growth is a gradual step by step process; it takes time.

Fifth, use the technique of visualization.  See yourself growing and reaching what you desire.  Whether you use Vision Boards or MindMovies, by concentrating on images of what you want, you align your thoughts and thinking towards achieving your goal.  Gradually, by making “Decisions with Your Goal in Mind”, you will achieve the growth you are looking for.

Always remember the saying, “It Only Takes One Person to Change Your Life”.  Who is that one person?  It’s You!!!

It’s really a simple process; don’t let situations get you down; learn the process of managing yourself and thus situations.  I want to introduce you to a fabulous system by my friend Dr. Joe Vitale.  The Secret Mirror is a series of video interviews of one on one consultations between Dr. Joe and his students.  You can see how he uses the mirror technique to unlock each individuals subconscious mind for answers.  Our subconscious is full of information.  We need to learn how to access it.   Keep in mind the saying, “Know that the Answer Lies Within”.  It is inside of you.  Click this Link To Access It.

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Nothing Is So Often Missed As A Daily Opportunity – Give It A Thought

Grab An Opportunity When You See It!!!

Grab An Opportunity When Yo

An opportunity is not always obvious.  It can be disguised as work, the unknown, a problem, a mishap or even a chance meeting.  You just never know when an opportunity may occur.
 
The key to recognizing an opportunity is “Opportunistic Awareness”.  What in the world is opportunistic awareness?  It means that you need to be in a state of heighten awareness for opportunities. 

An individual who is opportunistic will be able to perceive, spot, seize, evaluate and then take action on a worthwhile opportunity as soon as it is recognized.  

Sometimes you miss an opportunity simply because you do not see the value in it.  Remember the saying, “Opportunities Don’t Come With their Value Stamped On Them”.  What makes an opportunity valuable?  You make it valuable!  How?  By recognizing, seizing, adding to and optimizing it to the best of your ability.

Be willing to look into the unknown, the mishaps, and the problems that abound.  It is the solutions to these issues where opportunities can be found.  Don’t fear how much work it will take.  Do your research, plan, add value and then implement. Seize the opportunity and do your best.

Be ready when an opportunity presents itself.  Keep in mind the saying, “Average People Have Wishes and Hopes, Confident People Have Goals and Plans”.  Be confident and be ready.

Use the best tool you have, your mind.  Visualize the outcome and make it work for you.  Always remember this saying, “If It’s Important You Will Find a Way, If Not You Will Find an Excuse”.  You can do this if you make it a priority!!!

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A True Relationship Is When Someone – Give It A Thought

Know Your Partner

Know Your Partner

“A True Relationship is When Someone, Accepts Your Past,Supports Your Present and Encourages Your Future”

~ Author Unknown

To develop a true relationship, honesty is of the utmost importance.  Since this will be a lifetime investment, each of you should know and accept the others past.  

A heart to heart discussion of each other’s past should include topics such as credit history, medical issues, and family history.  The both of you should know where the other comes from and each should accept the past of the other.  You should know your companion before you make a lifetime commitment.

Neither of you should want to change the other, but accept one another for “Who They Are”.  You need to be willing to support each other’s lifestyle and be willing to give the relationship time, patience and understanding.  Keep in mind the golden rule of relationships, “Appreciate Each Others’s Similarities and Respect the Differences”.  

Each other’s dreams are meaningful and relevant.  These dreams need to be encouraged, researched and explored.  Help one another to become their best by showing support and encouraging them to follow their dreams.

Always remember the saying, “Love Does Not Consist of Gazing at Each Other, But in Looking Together in the Same Direction”.  Know each other’s past and accept it. Support one another and help each other grow each day.  Encourage your companion to follow their dreams into the future.  

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Communication A Tool For Success – Give It A Thought

The Power of Words

The Power of Words

One of the most important skills for success is the ability to communicate.  It is your use of words that motivate, encourage, convince and move people to action.  Through adept communication, you directly affect the listener and thus their actions.

The true power of words lies in their meaning to the listener.  More than simple conversation, words have the power to influence a person’s thinking and their behavior.  Know that, “The proper words delivered with emotion, at the appropriate time, can move people to take action”.  A good speaker can read the listener’s response and then alter their delivery to guide them.

Engage your audience with intriguing questions and get into their world.  Acknowledge their contributions and show your appreciation.  By choosing your words carefully, you can generate their curiosity.

This causes them to ask questions, thus placing them in the conversation on a personal level.  It is of the utmost importance for you to LISTEN!  Through their questions, they are giving you the keys to their concerns.  You can learn of their needs and offer a solution.

The ability to use the art of conversation to persuade the listener to see your point of view, increases the chance of success.  The skill to deliver information and persuade opinion is essential for business relationships.  Once the listener believes your message, then you can deliver closing words of action.  In other words, “close the deal”.

Words can be so dynamic, especially during communication.  They can be very powerful for you during the use of Affirmations, Meditations and Hypnosis.  Dr. Steve G. Jones, hypnotist to the stars of Beverly Hills, has a collection of over 4,ooo hypnotic recordings. These recordings can help you with many of life’s issues including Public Speaking and Self Confidence.  I own and use 10 of these recordings and can vouch for their value first hand. Take this first step and take a look at what’s available. Click the link below.

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“Let Your Past Make You Better – Give It A Thought”


“Let Your Past Make You Better, Not Bitter;

Learn from It & Forgive Your Past”

Author Unknown

Forgive & Forget for Your Sake

Forgive & Forget for Your Sake

You cannot change the past; you have already lived it.  There is nothing that can be done to change it, therefore you must accept it, although you can change the way you think about it.  Learn how your past can make you a Better person, not a Bitter person.

The first thing you must learn to do is forgive yourself and be truly you.  This forgiveness is for you, to set yourself free from any negativeness from the past.  It is the key to unlocking the perceived binds and limitations that the past holds.  Keep in mind the saying, “Forgiveness Does Not Change the Past, but It Does Set You Free to Enlarge the Future”.

Secondly, don’t waste today’s energy worrying about your past and what others think, to do so simply takes away energy from this moment.  If you do, you are unable to focus 100% of today’s time and energy into your present choices and decisions.  By doing so, you decrease your future expectations and possibilities.

Thirdly, learn from your past experiences.  Make yourself better by assimilating the knowledge gained from the past into your conscious awareness building your confidence. This enlightened awareness and confidence should be humbly used to guide you in making decisions.  In other words, don’t make the same mistake twice.  Understand that if you do make the same mistake twice, the second time actually was not a mistake, it was your choice. 

The past has no holds on your future.  You can mold the future into what you want.  The power is within you through the decisions you make.  The past should make you Better not Bitter.  It’s up to you to learn from it and then forgive.  Forgive for your own sake!  Don’t forget the saying, “If Bad Things Happen, You Have 3 Choices, It can Define You, Destroy You or Strengthen You”.  You should always strive to become stronger.

It’s really a simple process; don’t let your past get you down; learn the process of managing yourself and thus situations. There is a self-improvement system created by Dr. Joe Vitale, called the Secret Mirror, which is a series of video interviews of one on one consultations between Dr. Joe and his students.  

You can see how he uses the mirror technique to unlock each individuals subconscious mind for answers.  The subconscious mind is full of information.  You need to learn how to access it.   Keep in mind the saying, “Know that the Answer Lies Within”.  It is inside of you.  Click this Link for access.

 Dr. Joe Vitale’s video: The Secret Mirror

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Without Forgiveness, Your Life is Governed By Resentment – Give It A Thought

“Without Forgiveness Your Life is Governed by

An Endless Cycle of Resentment”

Author Unknown

Learn to forgive for your own sake!  To be wronged by someone says everything about them, not you.  The wrong can only hurt you if you allow it to.  Forgive and forget it.  If you continue to hold resentment, it will only hurt you.

Forgive For Your Sake!

Forgive For Your Sake!

Resentment and worry drain you of today’s energy.  You are unable to fully put forth a day’s effort when you are worried and concerned about being wronged.  You must learn to release this unnecessary burden of hurt.  It only causes pain because you allow it!

Forgive and release yourself from the prison of resentment.  When you forgive, the negative burden of hurt is discharged from your mind.  By forgiving , you are the one who is set Free.

Always keep in mind that, “The Only People Whom You Should Get Even With are Those Who Have Helped You”.  Pass help and kindness forward, allow it to grow with each and every act.

One of the best resources that I have found to help with forgiveness, is the Awakening Course by my friend and mentor Dr. Joe Vitale.  Forgiveness is made simple in this system.  It’s simple once you understand and accept that forgiveness is really for you.  If you believe that this is something that will be helpful to you, then click this link.:

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The Best Way To Cheer Yourself Up – Give It A Thought

Best Way To Cheer Yourself Up

Best Way To Cheer Yourself Up

“The Best Way to Cheer Yourself Up is to Cheer Someone Else Up”

Mark Twain

When you feel down, one of the best ways to make yourself feel better is to try and cheer a friend or someone else up.  By making another person happy, you can’t help, but feel good.  Happiness is an emotion that is needs to be shared.  It increases in intensity as you involve more and more people.  Although you feel down, remember the saying, “You Can’t Have A Rainbow Without a Little Rain”.

How do you cheer someone else up?   You start with a welcoming smile and ask: How can I help?  The next step is the most important and that is to listen!  Just the act of listening to someone can help them.  Through dialog and the flow of information you can offer different points of view.  By just being there for them, in that moment, you cheer them up.

The key to cheering someone up is to act.  Don’t intend to do something, go ahead and step up.  Understand the meaning of the saying, “The Smallest Act of Kindness is Worth so Much More Than the Grandest Intention; Act Now”.  

What comes from such a wonderful act of kindness?  You strengthen your relationship, brighten their day, explore solutions and reassure them that they are not alone.  When you do this, it creates a stronger bond of friendship.  What a wonderful experience!!!

Something happens inside of you; the feelings of good and accomplishment are generated.  You have helped someone by being there for them.  Miraculously you find yourself feeling good and like magic, you are cheered up.  Always remember Dr. Maya Angelou’s saying, “People Forget What You Say, They Forget What You Do, but They Never Forget How You Make Them Feel”.  You just made someone’s day!!!

“Become Someone’s Reason To Smile”

As you help someone with their concerns, you will realize the benefit of giving.  By giving of yourself you will also receive.  To guide you along the path of giving and receiving, Dr. Hew Len and Dr. Joe Vitale have produced the system of “Zero Limits”.  At it’s core, is a little know ancient Hawaiian secret practice.  Open your mind and grow with this system. Follow the link below to see if this program is right for you.

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Learn to Smile at Each Situation – Give It A Thought

“Learn to Smile at Each Situation”, means keeping calm, positive and finding the humor in it. Even if it is your own mistake, someone else’s mistake or a situation that has gone south, by looking at it in a positive light you become more open minded to solutions as they present themselves.  

When a situation is not going the way you planned, learn to laugh at yourself and the situational stage you find yourself on.

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“Sometimes You Are Tested,

Not To Show Your Weakness,

But To Discover Your Strength”

With humor, you turn the situation and yourself positive. You are more open- minded to ideas, clarifications and unfolding explanations from others. The solution will present itself and then you can implement it.

These situations are your opportunity to shine. That means to shine individually and as a team. Keep in mind the saying, “Don’t Look for a Friend to Solve Your Problems, Look for a Friend Who Will Face Them With You”.   Listening to ideas of other people is very powerful and the right thing to do. It is the flow of information that solves problems.

How do you prove yourself?

  • Find the humor in any situation
  • Stay positive
  • Generate an open minded curiosity
  • Listen to others
  • Be the catalyst for consensus
  • Plan and implement

Keep in mind the saying, “Think BIG Thoughts but Always Relish the Smallest of Pleasures; Enjoy Life”.  Learn to laugh at yourself.

It’s really a simple process; don’t let situations get you down; learn the process of managing yourself and thus situations. There is a self-improvement system created by Dr. Joe Vitale, called the Secret Mirror, which teaches you how to become successful. If you believe that this system is right for you, follow this link to:

 Dr. Joe Vitale’s video: The Secret Mirror

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People Who Play It Safe Don’t Grow, Give It A Thought

The First Step in Growth

The First Step in Growth

People Who Play It Safe Neither Grow Nor Fail; Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

You need to learn to grow throughout your life and live a life of purpose. If you are not growing, then you are playing it safe and will remain within your comfort zone.

This is a safe behavioral state where you feel sheltered and use comfortable behaviors.  You deliver your customary  performance without any sense of risk.

This comfort zone is where you stay safe, but you stop learning. If you stay here, you will gradually grow stale and become outdated.

I am not saying that you need to jump out there and take unnecessary risk.  I am saying that you need to maintain an open minded curiosity.  Always be inquisitive and ask questions.

You will want to stay current with the latest trends and technologies.  Look at different points of view and grow in the direction your passion takes you.  Feed your curiosity by asking questions!  The flow of information will help you grow.

Take calculated steps in the growth process. Don’t set yourself up to fail. Set obtainable goals and accomplish them.  Take measured steps in the growth process. Remember, your future is up to you.  Keep in mind the saying:

“Don’t GO Through Life, GROW Through Life”

As you begin your journey to expand your horizons, having guidance is of the utmost importance.  I use the system found in Dr. Hew Len’s and Dr. Joe Vitale’s “Zero Limits”. Grow into open minded curiosity by learning how to release your past and identifying limiting beliefs.  “Zero Limits” is about life change and designing a life that transcends your past self-imposed limitations.  Click on the link below.

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